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Not when you think the guy wants to. Not when your friends tell you to. And not when you believe society or religion says is right. Creating or seeking drama pushes quality men away.
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In fact, they find it excruciatingly painful. Drama attracts and keeps men who relish in those feelings. Qualities like passion, assertiveness, leadership and a strong sexual energy. There are plenty of kind men who embody those values without being an asshole.
This not a good look for anyone. It pains them to hear the women they care about call themselves ugly, fat, and constantly complain about their body. That even when they tell their girlfriend how attractive they are, it never sinks in.
To be more conscious of the way you speak about yourself out loud — for him and you. Most of your male friends like you or want to sleep with you. Or I should say, would sleep with you if you gave them the opportunity.
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Why is this important? They get frustrated and can sometimes take it out on you. But if you are being a good friendyou do not owe him anything for spending time with you. That means you:. No sexy text messages. No drunk kisses. Men are visually stimulated while women often leave things to the imagination. His porn is your sexy romance stories.
Think of it as a different medium. The only time porn becomes a problem is when it negatively affects your relationship.
For example, he masturbates so much it impacts his ability to perform in bed. If you find him like this every day, then you can start to worry. We all make our own choices in life.
It typically follows this progression: The fixee becomes dependent on the fixer to solve their problems. They can make temporary changes but will revert back. They feel insecure because of it. They feel worse about themselves and out of defensiveness may blame the fixer for their continued struggles.
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I have explained to him that that is how I wish to be comforted when I need the comfort, and have also mentioned that this does not mean that I always need it or that I want him to drop everything to hold me and deal with my crying for 30 minutes every single time I feel like crying.
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